Reason, Season, Lifetime...

there once was a piece of paper..
a very nice, shiny paper... one who believed in the pencil .. one who stood by her... one who spent hours talkin to her.. one who waited for her...
the pencil once was a friend.. one who cheated, who lied, who cried, who ignored...one who moved on...and wrote not a word on the paper...
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June 16,2005:
Reason, Season, Lifetime...

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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August 15, 2009:

you came in my life for a reason... you made me stronger and more truthfull.. you encouraged me to believe and to stand up...

you stood with me for a season, a season that taught me love and trust, friendship and sacrifice...
a season that untold all life's rules to me and made me free, to become what i wanted, and taught me the essence of being so close to achieving what you wanted all this time that you can sense it in your viens, only to give it all up for the good of suomeone else...

you will be with me for a lifetime... all i've learnt and experienced with you might go, but the clear, joyfull laughter we shared shall stay as a part of me forever.